{"id":264,"date":"2016-11-17T15:59:46","date_gmt":"2016-11-17T15:59:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/connietuttle.com\/blog\/?p=264"},"modified":"2016-11-17T16:05:06","modified_gmt":"2016-11-17T16:05:06","slug":"were-all-in-this-together","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/connietuttle.com\/blog\/were-all-in-this-together\/","title":{"rendered":"We’re All in This Together"},"content":{"rendered":"

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There is one thing we can\u2019t afford to do. We cannot afford to say there is only one right way to respond to growing hatred and fear in our nation.\u00a0If we do we will lose the gifts, the energy, the voices of many of our allies.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0<\/em>\u00a0We are an aggregate of women, men, non-binary folk, African-American, white, Mexican, Middle Eastern, straight, LGBTQ, young and old, with differing abilities. And if you don\u2019t feel included in the list above, my apologies \u2013 because you belong on that list and we are in this together with you, too.<\/p>\n

We have a lot to learn about one another. About races other than our own, other faiths than our own \u2013 or people who are outside any religious tradition \u2013genders other than our own, sexual identities other than our own, experiences other than our own\u2026 you get my drift. All of us are valuable and have something important to contribute.<\/p>\n

It may small daily acts, it might be phone calls, it might be marching in the streets, it might be attending anti-racism workshops, it might be offering a safe space for others to speak or grieve, it might be standing up for others even when you, yourself are terrified. It might be becoming politically educated and politically involved. It might even be wearing a safety pin to let people know you are a safe person and that you will stand with them.<\/p>\n

We need to empower one another to speak with the voices we have, however disparate. We may need to educate others who stand with us now who not have been visible before.<\/p>\n

Are micro-aggressions real? \u00a0Absolutely.<\/p>\n

Does misogyny need to be recognized and addressed cross-culturally? \u00a0Without a doubt.<\/p>\n

Is now the time to confront our own internalized homophobia? Of course.<\/p>\n

Do we need to recognize and allow ourselves to be challenged by our different beliefs, cultures, and experiences? \u00a0For sure.<\/p>\n

But if we forget that what binds us is a passion for justice and freedom, if we don’t affirm the humanity of each one, if we refuse one another\u2019s gifts, then we are not nourishing a sustained commitment to one another for this fight.<\/p>\n

So here\u2019s my point: we are all in this together. Let us make room. Let us encourage one another to stand and to work in the ways we are able. Let us honor the different abilities we have to do different kinds of work. We have \u00a0to listen through the things that that trigger us and engage where necessary but we cannot let our differences stop us.<\/p>\n

What we share is a commitment. If they fracture us, then they win.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

There is one thing we can\u2019t afford to do. We cannot afford to say there is only one right way to respond to growing hatred and fear in our nation.\u00a0If we do we will lose the gifts, the energy, the voices of many of our allies. \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0We are an … Continue reading We’re All in This Together<\/span> →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[13,24,8,21,23],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/connietuttle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/264"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/connietuttle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/connietuttle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/connietuttle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/connietuttle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=264"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"http:\/\/connietuttle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/264\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":269,"href":"http:\/\/connietuttle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/264\/revisions\/269"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/connietuttle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=264"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/connietuttle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=264"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/connietuttle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=264"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}